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May 20, 2012
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Young artists find hope, encouragement in Midland – Midland Reporter

When I was in high school, I took a few art classes and dabbled in charcoal and watercolors. Sometimes I would sketch drawings of trees on my parents’ property and tried my hand at creating various clown portraits (yes, you read that right.).

But none of it was any good — trust me — and I quickly got bored with the hobby.

My sister, though, inherited our mother’s creativity and now paints originals on canvases. One of her recent pieces was a gift to me at Christmas and is proudly displayed in my dining room.

While I’m not any good, there are many young artists in Midland who are and are finding their niche in our community. Some have been painting only for a few years; others have been doing it since they were in elementary school and now have perfected their craft.

With events like Celebration of the Arts going on this weekend and multiple art shows in the area throughout the year, there are plenty of places to get plugged in, even if art is just a hobby.

And there are plenty of places where people like myself, who aren’t talented, can appreciate those who are.

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Best friends Molly Swanson and Danielle Kiser met in college and would spend hours together during the week collaborating on art projects. When they moved back to Midland, they were running their own stores online at Etsy.com and decided to team up. They created the business Flying Olive and sell their art at the Midland Downtown Farmer’s Market on Saturday mornings.

The women, both 27, got involved in art at a young age. Swanson took art lessons at a local studio and said she fell in love with expressing herself through art. While she’s tried a little bit of everything — from sewing to jewelry — she now focuses on painting.

“Although Midland may not be a very artsy city, I’ve had such a positive response to my artwork,” Swanson said. “I’m so thankful for opportunities like Midland Downtown Farmer’s Market and Celebration of the Arts to be a part of the creative community.”

Kiser’s mother is an art teacher, and she was surrounded by art ever since she was young. In college, she planned to pursue commercial design and advertising but wanted more of a hands-on art experience, so she decided to study art education instead. Like Swanson, she has done a little bit of many kinds of art, but now her favorite is ceramics.

“I think it is very important to share art with the community because it keeps you motivated as an artist. I also think that Midland isn’t an art-rich community, so the more you share, the more you build up the art scene,” she said.

The two are participating in Celebration of the Arts this weekend as artist demonstrators, Kiser creating ceramics, and Swanson is painting.

The women said that being around other artists helps them to feed off each other and be inspired by other local creative talents.

“We are constantly seeking new inspiration to incorporate into our artwork,” she said.

Swanson said it’s valuable to get feedback on her paintings and it’s fun to share ideas, inspiration and techniques with other artists.

“Being a young artist is exciting because there seems to be so much to learn and try. There are many opportunities and possibilities as an artist, and being young makes me feel free to explore them,” she said.

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Sara Drescher Braswell, 35, developed an interest in art at a young age. She’s turned her love of the craft into a profession which she’s held for the last 12 years.

Most of her paintings are watercolors, and she paints a lot of portraits. Her art is very figurative and symbolic and ties in with her faith, she said.

“Creativity is something that can feed your soul and help you to find purpose outside of the everyday responsibilities we all face,” she said.

A children’s art teacher and professional painter, Braswell is this year’s distinguished artist for Celebration of the Arts. She will have 15 pieces of original artwork on display, as well as prints and reproductions of other pieces.

“I’m really honored,” she said, adding that she’s participated in the annual show since 2002.

While she believes there is a strong art community in Midland, she thinks many of the younger artists leave the area after college.

Events like Celebration of the Arts, Septemberfest and other activities sponsored by local arts associations, helps to keep artists involved in the art community.

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For 31-year-old Jennifer Talley, it was involvement in various local art associations that helped strengthen her craft.

Always having been interested in art history, Talley didn’t begin to create and paint until two years ago when her husband was transferred to Midland from Tulsa and she had time to take lessons and classes.

“It’s something I’ve always wanted to,” she said. “I really appreciated other people’s works in galleries and museums, and I enjoyed traveling to see them.”

A lot of her inspiration comes from those travels she took in her 20s and early 30s, she said.

“I really like to bring those places back to other people’s homes for those who can’t travel,” she said.

She’s traveled to 40 states and 20 countries and said her grandmother is a huge influence in her life. Her grandmother is a Spanish teacher who supported her studying abroad and from whom she inherited the “travel bug,” Talley said.

A recent trip to Hawaii with her husband inspired her to paint two different pictures after visiting a farmer’s market there. Her time in Spain encouraged her architectural pieces, she said.

“I paint the mood of the place. I’m trying to capture what you would feel traveling there, like the happiness or joy and excitement and beauty of the place,” she said.

Talley’s work is currently on display through June 2 at Midland Community Theatre.

“I’m very thankful to the opportunity so early in my art career. I’m proud and feel accomplished. I’m hoping that people just really enjoy my pieces,” she said.

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Jason Rhode started creating artworks with a friend when he was in third grade. But when his friend died his freshman year in high school, he drifted away from it.

“It stopped being fun,” he said. “I doodled here and there, but it was nothing to write home about.”

After watching the television show “Miami Ink” — about the world of tattooing — he told his wife he was interested in the craft.

Rhode uses a wheelchair and knew he wouldn’t be able to do any of the tattooing, but he thought he could do the artwork for the tattoos.

Within a month, he filled a 50-page notebook with designs and drawings. The next month, he filled up a second notebook.

“They were just pencil drawings, but honestly they weren’t any good. I was so far removed from (the art),” he said.

He began to teach himself and started experimenting on canvases and with mediums like charcoal and acrylics. His largest piece to date is a 5-foot by 4-foot acrylic painting, he said.

Rhode said he likes to use other items in his artwork. Once he took some old eggshells out of the trash and crushed them on a black canvas. Another time, he used his wheelchair to run paint over a canvas.

He’s participated in shows like Septemberfest and has donated pieces for local fundraisers.

He’ll paint landscapes for people, but Rhode said he prefers to make people think with his social commentaries that have bit of sarcasm mixed in. He’ll take lines from movies, songs or books and see where he can go with it.

“I tend to see if I can ruffle feathers a little bit to make people think,” he said.

For younger artists, he offers this advice: “Go with what you like, and don’t deviate from it. Be true to yourself.”

At many shows, Rhode said admirers of his work will approach him and express how they wish they could do the art themselves.

“Just do it,” he tells them. “It’s just what I did. I loved doing it since I was young, and I didn’t have anything to lose except somebody not getting it.

“But you just move onto the next person until eventually you’re going to click with people. It’s just finding that right audience.”

Audrie Palmer can be reached at apalmer@mrt.com.

Article source: http://www.mywesttexas.com/top_stories/article_9a0688d1-5464-5063-97f5-500aa30b582b.html

May 20, 2012
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GiftBasket4Kids Reveals Common Mistakes to Avoid with a Birthday Gifts for Kids

/EINPresswire.com/ People tend to get extremely confused when it comes to choosing birthday gifts for kids. From coming up with an idea for party favors for kids, to selecting a nice birthday theme, planning birthdays has become ever more complicated today. In this aspect, GiftBasket4Kids.com brilliantly takes the burden off the parent’s and organizer’s shoulders by presenting wonderful gift basket ideas for kids and pre-teens.

As a part of their service, the website regularly shares information, news, reviews and tips regarding ideas related to birthday gift for kids and party favors for kids. Recently, the website shared a very informative and interesting article in this aspect. The article highlights more than one common birthday gift for kids that can actually create conflict and problems.

According to a spokesperson for GiftBasket4Kids.com, “We offer plenty of ideas for party favors for kids and birthday gifts for kids, but we do not want to restrict the choice and freedom of our customers. However, we feel it is extremely important to keep in mind if the gift is appropriate, suitable and most importantly desirable for the kid or not.”

Talking about the very first mistake to avoid in this regard, the spokesperson warned against choosing pets and animals as a birthday gifts for kids. The reason why they are inappropriate for kids is because most kids are not able to properly take care of them. Due to their annoying behavior, they might end up hurting the animal or themselves. Moreover, in case of a pet’s demise, the child has to go through an emotionally disturbing and turbulent time.

Another piece of advice coming from GiftBasket4Kids.com is to avoid any kind of gift that is in any way inappropriate for the child’s age. “An age inappropriate gift is a broad term,” adds the spokesperson, “Such gifts can be either too boring or mature like books, or may affect their behavior in a negative manner like violent video games.”

The article suggests that it is best to stay away from such birthday gifts for kids, which are fundamentally unsafe and harmful. While this includes darts and BB guns, skateboards and rollerblades may also be counted in the same category. However, sport equipment, knowing that parents would love to supervise their kids while playing, is a nice birthday gift idea with no exception of age and gender.

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May 17, 2012
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Essentials of an office gift

You could buy a good office gift without over shooting your budget. But you may avoid lower quality gifts that can impair your image. Any office gift sent to other companies or given to an individual in an establishment reflects on the image of either the company or the individual who gives out the gift. TONIA ‘DIYAN writes.

It is thoughtful of a boss to appreciate an employee in an office for a job well done. Such motivation could be in form of a mug, but what is most important is the motif and continuity. This could motivate the employee to perform better next time and strengthen both companies’ business relationships.

According to a corporate sales gift surveyor, many employees believe their employers spend minimal time and effort selecting their gifts. Among the most thoughtless gifts received are a ruler, a lottery ticket, a face towel, and eraser, among others.

“As a boss, the right office gift shows that your employees are valuable assets to you”, said Mrs Moraya Ayuba, a consultant and an author.

Mrs Tochukwu Okoli, a marketing manager with one of the firms at Marina, Lagos, said: “as a boss, giving gifts to my subordinates is an opportunity to show how I feel about them and assess the work they are doing. It is important for managers to take opportunities to retain employees in an employee-driven market.”

Most office workers only have time to shop during the holiday season for their families, but most times, they do not remember their colleagues or employees at work. The Chief Executive Officer, Delightsome Gifts Concepts, Gbagada, Lagos, Mrs Modupe Shopeju, noted: “In the absence of well-defined gift-giving attitude in offices, workers are left to muddle through holidays, birthdays and a host of other gift-giving occasions”.

However, with the vast selection of gift ideas, comes an array of choices such as cards, calendars, company branded items, fruit basket, flowers, plants, wine/liquor and hand written cards for a more lasting expression of thought. Availability of many retail shops has made buying perfect office gifts easier.

Essentials of buying office gifts include; checking with colleagues what kind of gifts they require. To have a great idea of what to buy, ask your colleagues what their hobbies are because on a personal level, it is difficult to know yourselves. Therefore, knowing what gift to buy is a difficult challenge.

Since cultural differences vary, rules should be respected when buying office gifts. For instance, in China, white symbolises death, therefore should not be used to wrap any kind of gift.

Packaging of the gift is as important as choosing the right gift to reflect your values on business relationships. Use the many gift-wrapping services available from retailers; spend time and money on wrapping.

A personally delivered gift will keep you at the top-of-the-mind of your clients and colleagues. This is an opportunity to connect with clients, boss, colleagues, business partners, associates, employees, employer and customers to strengthen ties. Adopting an attitude of giving will make the act of office gift buying less stressful.

This practice should be operational in all offices; business owners should show appreciation to hard-working employees and loyal customers from time to time. There are many gifts choices available in retail shops today and because of that, it is sometimes easier to go with simple choices like themed gift baskets. Trends evolve every year and gift ideas for companies are rising and are becoming very popular.

Office gifts may be addressed to single person or could be sent to a group, department or a company. Snack basket is a great idea for several people in an office. It might include the following delights: chocolates, coffee or tea gourmet, candies, seasonal fruits and other edible treats that can delight their tastes while at work.

Therefore, being the giver, you should understand the needs for your gifts. However, it is more appreciated if what you are giving is a real gift of appreciation, not a generic business gift such as pens, notebooks and cheap writing pads. They are the type that are boring and can tell that you did not put any thought into them.

Personalising is a great way to include the thought that you want to show to the person or company and can be a good way to show respect too. With the trend of giving office gift on the increase, newer and expensive items are inspired as well. These elegant gifts may be presented during the company’s annual Christmas Party, Recognition Day and Anniversaries. Also, a common gift during holidays is having a holiday party or dinner to celebrate and to say thank you for the hard work all through the year.

When giving corporate gifts, think of something that can relate to the personality of professionals. This is a sure way to score with business executives. Choices are leather desk accessories, glass desk set accessories, imprinted gifts, office thank you gifts and other elegant business items that professionals could use in or out of the office. Also consider personalising them for an effect that your receiver would surely appreciate.

Buying for the boss is also acceptable but do your research before proceeding. Appropriate gifts for bosses include; calendars, organisers, pen sets, food baskets, stationery, tea, coffee, or something along the line of relaxation squeeze balls. Your decision is most important if you want to buy office gifts. But it has to do with a personal decision that you should make. In fact, it is very much similar to shopping for gifts for family members. There are so many gifts that you can give; such as life gifts, oriental pillows or rugs, personalised pen and desk accessories like photo frames, day planners and filing cabinet.

Custom office gifts are also offered by many stores wherein the company logo or business name is printed on items like clock, pen, shirts, or cap. You should be aware that not all stores offer this option. You have to pick a reputed company that can cater to your needs. In some places, there are restrictions when it comes to giving gifts to employees. You have to make sure that you are not violating any law or regulation, so try to give appropriate gift items. Shop around retail stores to get some ideas of what gift items can be customised.

Ordering in bulk will allow you to save money. Some stores offer special discounts during the holiday season. Take advantage of these special deals. When giving gifts, do not just handpick them. There are special considerations that you should look into so that your intentions would not be misunderstood. Some employees prefer a cash bonus rather than receiving a custom gift from their employers. In recent years, the economic crunch has affected the lives of many people and because of this, most employees need extra cash.

A plan should be devised in advance. This will give you more time to prepare and decide on the best gifts too. To generate goodwill, you can organise a meeting and consult your employees about their preferences. You have to encourage them to share their thoughts and suggestions. Through diplomatic means, you can come up with a solution that will benefit everyone. Quality should not be sacrificed for a cheaper price. As mentioned earlier, you can get the gifts at a lower price if you buy in large orders.

 

 

Article source: http://www.thenationonlineng.net/2011/index.php/business/shopping/46962-essentials-of-an-office-gift.html

May 17, 2012
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Christmas Potpourri at Temecula Valley Museum

Looking for a fun project to get you in the Christmas mood? Come to the Temecula Valley Museum for our December Family Day Event Christmas Potpourri on Saturday, December 11th from 10:00 AM to Noon.

 Brought back by popular demand, join us to make a special Christmas recipe potpourri from various dried herbs, plants and spices.  Make a gift for a friend or just have fun creating your own recipe.  Then tie it with a pretty ribbon and add your own label.  Also, learn about the history of potpourri and get ideas for other Christmas craft projects.  The workshop is from 10:00 AM to noon on Saturday, December 11th.  For more information and to RSVP, please call the Temecula Valley Museum at (951) 694-6450.  Workshop fee is $5.00.

 The Temecula Valley Museum is located in Sam Hicks Monument Park at 28314 Mercedes Street, Old Town Temecula

Article source: http://www.valleybusinessjournal.com/arts-dining-a-entertainment/416-christmas-potpourri-at-temecula-valley-museum

May 16, 2012
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Stars Add Glitter to Jeweler’s Designs

A fixture in the Beverly Hills jewelry scene since opening his first store, Diamonds on Rodeo, in 1982, Mr. Procop had his most significant moment in the limelight a dozen years ago, when he helped adorn 13 nominees and winners for the 2000 Academy Awards in Hollywood.

At the time, he had been recruited to oversee the financial restructuring of Asprey Garrard, the London-based jeweler to the British crown. The company had run into deep trouble under the ownership of Prince Jefri Bolkiah, the Sultan of Brunei’s profligate younger brother.

“I figured we had to do something to bring people back to the store on Bond Street,” Mr. Procop said from a small but light-filled showroom in Beverly Hills, where he maintains an exclusive wholesale and by-appointment business, Robert Procop Exceptional Jewels. “And I thought, well, if I’m going to do the Oscars, I’ll do them at one time.”

Among the celebrities Mr. Procop worked with that night was Hilary Swank, a best-actress nominee for her performance in “Boys Don’t Cry.” He put her in an antique necklace that he created at the last minute by deconstructing an Asprey Garrard tiara.

“She won the Oscar, so it was her lucky charm,” he said.

As it happened, Mr. Procop was equally charmed that night. He made the acquaintance of Ms. Jolie after dressing her in an antique Asprey Garrard Art Deco bracelet.

As the two got to know each other, Ms. Jolie became, if not quite Mr. Procop’s muse, then an enthusiastic collaborator. She brought her first idea to him in 2008, when she suggested they co-design a snake-themed collection called The Protector, with proceeds to go to the Education Partnership for Children of Conflict, the nonprofit Ms. Jolie founded in 2007.

“She doesn’t do anything unless it’s for charity,” Mr. Procop said.

In 2008, Ms. Jolie asked the jeweler to help her design a pendant bearing a hidden message as a Christmas gift for Mr. Pitt, setting the stage for a co-designed collection inspired by ancient tablets.

“We studied all different kinds of tablets — old Chinese tablets, the Ten Commandments, antique tablets from the Arabian peninsula,” he said. “From there, we formulated how a diamond might look if we engraved it, and then made a vessel to hold what you would think was a heavy stone, and from there we made a pendant for Brad.”

The process by which the actress and jeweler worked — exchanging ideas and sketches during carefully choreographed encounters in foreign cities where their paths happened to cross — laid the groundwork for an even more fruitful collaboration: In 2010 the pair embarked on Style of Jolie, a collection of pieces featuring rich, saturated gemstones — especially fine Colombian emeralds, black spinel and honey-colored citrines — in sculptural gold mountings.

“She has a very classic, chic style; there is a pureness to it. She doesn’t like the small micropavé,” Mr. Procop said. “We’re designing things she would wear, that she really truly loves. Then we sell them and give 100 percent to charity.”

The line, which incorporates both the tablet setting and plenty of bezel-set gems in rounded cushion cuts, originated with a storyboarding process that, to hear Mr. Procop tell it, Ms. Jolie approached with an art historian’s rigor.

“She comes with more ideas and more research and books and images and she finds things I can’t find,” he said, pointing to the wall, where a series of storyboards plastered with images of full-bodied women from Renaissance-era paintings provided the basis for the collection’s trademark curves.

Style of Jolie will debut in the United States this autumn. But interested buyers should take note of the collection’s high quotient of one-of-a-kind and limited edition pieces, which, given the publicity Mr. Procop has received, may soon be spoken for.

On the Monday in April that followed the first known sighting of Ms. Jolie wearing her new engagement ring — a sizable tablet-cut stunner flanked by straight-edged diamonds in graduating sizes — Mr. Procop said he had to turn off his phone to stem the flood of media inquiries he had received over the weekend.

He offered up a few tidbits in a statement: “The ring was entirely hand carved in yellow gold. Every diamond is custom faceted to design specifications of gem quality” but beyond those spare details, Mr. Procop declined to elaborate, citing his respect for the newly engaged couple.

“It’s their moment,” he said. “I’m hesitant to take the spotlight.”

Article source: http://www.nytimes.com/2012/05/16/fashion/stars-add-glitter-to-jewelers-designs.html

May 16, 2012
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Golf Mill gift expo helps visitors wrap up Mother’s Day shopping

By TRACY GRUEN
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May 14, 2012 3:46PM

Several businesses were featured at Golf Mill offering special Mother’s Day gift ideas. | Joe Cyganowski~For Sun-Times Media

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EVENT: Mother’s Day gift expo

DATE HELD: May 10

LOCATION: Golf Mill Shopping Center, Niles


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Updated: May 14, 2012 8:30PM

Each year when Mother’s Day rolls around, for many sons and daughters it’s tough to find that perfect gift for mom.

Various businesses with something special to offer for Mother’s Day showcased their gift ideas on May 10 at Center Court at Golf Mill Shopping Center to make searching for that perfect gift a little easier.

Bath Body Works, Emotional Bonding Flower Boutique, Things Remembered, P.J.’s Avon, Michael Hill jewelry store, Arch-Ez Sensational Beauty, and Selections Luggage and Handbag featured varied gift ideas for mom and offered coupons to shoppers.

Golf Mill also had a table that featured a free “candy bar” where customers could create a special Mother’s Day bag filled with candy. The mall also held a drawing and gave away free lawn chairs.

“It’s our second-most-popular time,” said Audrey O’Malley, of Bath Body Works, comparing Mother’s Day holiday shopping with that of Christmas.

The Bath Body Works table offered gift-basket ideas filled with lotions and other products, in addition to a special Mother’s Day promotion. O’Malley said some people may not realize they carry items other than lotions and body washes that mom might enjoy, such as scented candles.

“Everyone remembers their mother on Mother’s Day,” said Carmen Cesa, manager of Internet-based flower shop Emotional Bonding Flower Boutique.

“It’s a very nice extra gesture,” Cesa said of flowers on Mother’s Day as a token of appreciation.

Customers gladly accepted free carnations Emotional Bonding was handing out at the event.

Cassy Soell, of Things Remembered, said the event was beneficial to the store, which features personalized items that can be engraved, such as mugs, picture frames and jewelry.

“It’s brought a lot of business to us,” said Soell, adding that the store offers unique gifts designed just for the recipient. “It’s a little more personalized.”

Michelle Tran, of Just Relax Massage, also inside the mall, said she felt the Mother’s Day event was a good way to give customers new ideas for gifts while helping them discover all of the businesses in the mall.

And of course, a nice massage for Mother’s Day might be just what busy moms need.

“Women need to relax,” Tran said. “We are living in a society that is constantly on the go.”

Article source: http://mortongrove.suntimes.com/news/12404160-418/golf-mill-gift-expo-helps-visitors-wrap-up-mothers-day-shopping.html

May 16, 2012
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Remembering Carlos Fuentes

(Note: There will be other obituaries, eulogies, attempts to get at the whole of Carlos Fuentes, but this is merely my personal remembrance: subjective, incomplete, and with unstable emphases.)

I was always going to be a writer; as a child, my favorite Christmas gift from my parents was a typewriter. I sold my comics to the other kids beginning in the first grade, started writing short stories as a boy, completed a hilariously bad science fiction novella when I was about 11 (and which only a handful of people have seen – you know who you are.) However, it was not until my late teens that I began to think about becoming a novelist, and more specifically a Latin American novelist, in that sacred tradition.

On the surface, this seems unlikely. Growing up in Laredo, my experience with Mexico had more to do with the local nightclubs across the river than anything literary. It is impossible, however, to grow up in that town without certain influences being cast upon you; a culture that includes La Zona, Taco Palenque, Catholic school, and the sing-song cadence of the demented Spanglish we speak in that region. I am not sure how I first got the idea of being a Latin American novelist, but in retrospect it seems almost inevitable to flirt with the notion.

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Eventually I would find Jorge Amado, and Gabriel Garcia-Marquez, and Mario Vargas Llosa, and Julio Cortazar, and the almighty Jorge Luis Borges. But before any of those arrived I found Carlos Fuentes. Mexico’s greatest novelist. An international “man of letters,” a concept that hardly exists anymore. Fuentes was probably not the greatest influence on my younger self at that time, but he was midwife to all the others.

Thinking of Fuentes now makes me recall the Laredo Public Library, which was not a place I spent a lot of time in, having grown up near the local university library. I can see the bum sleeping on the bench outside, hear the twitter of birds on the thin trees, smell that unmistakable odor of unwashed clothes and bad ventilation. But mostly I remember exactly where the aisle was where they kept the books by Carlos Fuentes. It’s been more than 20 years, but in my mind’s representation I know just where they are.

I am pretty sure I began with a book called Cambio de Piel (A Change of Skin). It was a baffling exercise of a book to me then, and remains terribly flawed now, but it still remains a favorite. There is, as in all of his writing, power there. Fuerza.

When the four of you entered today all you saw was the narrow filthy streets and the packed houses that are all alike, all of one story, all a blind wall with a too wide door of cracked wood, all daubed yellow and blue.

And I was off.

When I first embarked on this adventure (and adventure it seemed), I had a certain trepidation that the culture of the novel was too different, that I would be literally lost in translation. That fear evaporated. Certainly A Change of Skin was not like any previous novel I had ever read, being metaphysical, self-conscious, political, and utterly alien and strange. The novel is aware of novelistic construction and deliberately subverts it. The characters give long diatribes about their chosen subjects, at times in the voice of Fuentes, at times not. Then, at the end, we find the author of this book signs his name, “Your ever lovin’ Freddy Lambert.” The author signs his work with a fictitious name? Or another character, this narrator distinct from Fuentes? (Hint: the ‘Freddy’ invoked is from Friedrich Nietzsche, perhaps the least ‘Freddy’ sort of person of all time.)

So here we go, Dragoness. That’s called taking the sword in your mouth and swallowing it up to the hilt, and sure enough, the Fair-Haired one told us, “There are eunuchs who have become eunuchs only to win the kingdom of heaven.” So, you see, the Gnostics put their balls on the table so that Baudelaire and Breton could be born, and Genet and Miller, so that we could dream the American Dream that enacts the crimes of Monk Ambrose in the feudal castles of Beverly Hills with the bleeding nun, la Belle Dame Sans Merci, Pollyanna Equanil of our masturbating dreams; you can hear his steps on the carpets of the glass prisons. And in regard to Marcion, when Polycarp saw him, he shouted, “I know you, First-Born of Satan!” simply because Marcion, a hipster if there ever was one, had been the first to understand that God is the Alien, the entirely Other…

You see what I mean by midwife. He actually mentions Hopscotch (Rayuela) by name in the book, leading me by the nose directly to Cortazar.

A Change of Skin was written in 1967 and has the hallmarks, as you can see. But in my teenage self, desiring to know All That There Is, and being presented with a succession of names, some familiar, some unknown, I was driven to find out what Fuentes was going on about. In those pre-Internet days, that meant much time spent in libraries, for whom (yes, whom) I retain a lasting affection. I can see now that this altered my taste in important ways, giving me an unshakable ardor for the Continent, its ideas and customs, its cinema represented by Herzog and Antonioni watched on poor VHS copies on television, its languages manifested in my dabbling with French and German.

This was also during the period in which I became aware of Freytag’s Triangle – the arc of drama – and so there were certain technical innovations that struck me. In The Death of Artemio Cruz, he distinguishes passages from one another by using first, second, and third-person narration. In Distant Relations the tense changes continually (but logically). However, beyond technique and the Continental obsessions, Fuentes did have a flair for gorgeous observation. In Distant Relations (a book that may have been one of the inspirations for My Dinner with Andre; in any case it is in the same métier) the storyteller remarks:

The elderly sleep very little, Branly repeats now. They feel besieged by the need for vigilance, and in this, old age is wise. Adjustments are made so that it is not psychologically necessary to sleep as much as before, as in the days when one came home worn out after poking into every corner of one’s grandfather’s castle, or after playing in the Parc Monceau, after making love with Myrtho in a nest of rose-colored eiderdowns, or after nights beneath the sulphurous lightning flashes of the trenches.

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There were once Gods, and the Gods were defeated, or taken, or razed without mercy, but now and again they may flex their divinity among us moderns.

As in H. P. Lovecraft, there is a sense of historical foreboding in all of Fuentes’ work. Underneath the surface of things there is a past which has been trampled on by those same Europeans whose art we so admire. Sometimes it happens directly, as in the short story “Chac-Mool,” from his collection Burnt Water (and it is interesting, perhaps, to cross-reference the direct apparition in this story with “The Idol of the Cyclades” from Blowup and Other Stories by Cortazar, which features possession), but most often it is inherent in the structures, the people, the social world without direct manifestation. Sometimes this is handled with humor, as in Christopher Unborn, in which Mexico decides that a child born on October 12 with the appropriate surname will be “proclaimed PRODIGAL SON OF THE NATION, with practically unlimited powers of election, succession, and selection…MEXICAN MACHOS, IMPREGNATE YOUR WIVES – RIGHT AWAY!

TOMORROW MAY BE TOO LATE

WHEN THE FROST IS ON THE PUNKIN

THAT’S THE TIME FOR DICKIE DUNKIN”

However, in most cases, the historical reality of this living past, which achieved perhaps its most definitive expression in Octavio Paz, is a subject for philosophical reflection, whether in the remembrances of Artemio Cruz or the adventures of Baltasar Bustos in the struggle for Mexican independence in The Campaign. The Mexican story of invasion and manipulation from outside countries, conquest and control, is a constant theme of Fuentes’s work. It appeared to some extent in his most famous novel – one of his worst – called Old Gringo, which has a fascinating subject (what happened to Ambrose Bierce, who disappeared in Mexico?) but a certain laziness in execution.

We’re always being remembered for all the wrong things.

That probably makes sense in this case, however. It sets the paradigm, fits in with the theme. The past viewed without nostalgia, the old gods respected, the cycles of generative pain acknowledged.

In his story “Constancia,” Fuentes describes the feelings of an El Salvadoran refugee couple forced to part with their daughter:

Stay here, be reborn here, let us die, but you must go on living, Constancia, in our name, don’t let yourself be vanquished, don’t let yourself be destroyed by the violence of history, you must live, Constancia, you musn’t yield to exile, you must stem the tide of fugitives, at least save yourself, dear daughter, mother, sister, don’t let yourself be pulled under the current of exile, you at least remain, grow, be a sign: they survived here. Protect us with your memory, seal us with your eyes…

I imagine, I can only imagine; I do not know anything, even though I have felt the pain of  separation, being far from the one I love, have felt it deeply, to the point of tears. But now I can only imagine them – Constancia, Plotnikov, the dead child – because I finally see them as part of something greater, something I had not understood before. How long, Constancia, did you give life – my life – to your dead?

I understand that better now than I ever have.

I turned out not to be a novelist. Wrote some novels, none I deemed publishable, found a niche as an essayist and film critic, eventually put out some short stories with a screenplay on the way. I’ve stayed with the written word even when it didn’t seem to care for me too much.

We’re all more indebted to others, near and far, for the collage that constitutes ourselves. Carlos – hopefully I can call you Carlos – I never met you but I owe you a lot. See you soon, I’m sure.

And don’t forget your ever lovin’,

Joe Green

Article source: http://www.examiner.com/article/remembering-carlos-fuentes-1

May 15, 2012
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I Love the Mohawk Valley: Pens prove mighty for local teen

Local teenage entrepreneur Ian Hetherington has taken what started out as a hobby with his dad and turned it into his very own small business.

The Rome Free Academy sophomore makes exquisite pens from materials like marble, acrylic and wood. He’s even made pens from deer antler and a bullet casing.

Hetherington, 16, has been operating his pen business since last October, selling his creations at gift shop on North Madison Street. He answers questions about his craft and his business, Pens by Ian Hetherington.

Question: What’s the reaction you get from people when they learn that you make pens?

Answer: When people actually see the pens, they’re just blown away by it. It’s something that’s really unique.

Q: How did you get started with making pens?

A: Well, my dad, he makes Christmas projects every year. He does a lot of woodworking and stuff like that and one year he was making these wooden pens on a lathe … So I was just really intrigued by it and I asked him if I could try helping him out a little bit. That’s pretty much how it all got started.

Q: So, you actually have your own business?

A: Yeah. I have my own business card. I really have been making a lot of money doing it. (The pens range from $25 to $40 with the most expensive pen at $80.) It’s really not about the money that’s important; it’s something that I really enjoy doing.

Q: Is this something that you’ll continue to do after high school?

A: I’m not really sure if I’m going to carry it on past high school. I talk to my dad about it frequently…. I want to go to college to be an engineer. I want to be a mechanical engineer.

Q: What advice would you give other teenagers about running a business?

A: A lot of kids have great business ideas, but they don’t end up pursuing them. You should really try to pursue your dream if you have one. Running a business isn’t the easiest thing in the world, but if it’s something that you want to do and you have a passion for it, I would highly recommend people going out and achieving their goals.

About the pens
Pens by Ian Hetherington can be found at Cornucopia Candles and Toy Shoppe on North Madison Street in Rome. For more information about the pens or to order custom pens, email the artist at hetherington@msn.com or call 335-7316.

 

PHOTO GALLERY

Article source: http://www.uticaod.com/features/x1310217774/I-Love-the-Mohawk-Valley-Pens-prove-mighty-for-local-teen

May 14, 2012
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Five somewhat unique Mother’s Day gift ideas

Mother’s Day is upon us once again, and if you’re like me (I hope you’re not), then we once again face that yearly struggle of what to get Mom to show our appreciation for her having birthed us. I always try to at least make an appearance on the day and usually bring along a mass-produced greeting card or a small bouquet of flowers. It all seems a trivial gesture, though, when stacked against her now-29-years of unwavering love, financial support and cookies. However, I’ve been giving a lot of thought to what might make a good Mother’s Day gift, and this is what I’ve come up with. Any suggestions are welcome. This gift-giving business is honestly a bit out of my wheelhouse of expertise. 

*A quick aside: Don’t go out to eat on Sunday. I’ve known people in the service industry for years, and rarely are those “special” Mother’s Day meals actually special. If you must eat out, go during the week leading up to the occasion. Avoid the crowds and save Sunday as a day to spend with Mom—not a struggle to beat the crowd at Chili’s. Or cook a meal at home. 

Sample fragrances
The biggest mistake I ever made regarding Mother’s Day gift-giving was purchasing an entire bottle of Guerlain’s Shalimar for my poor mother. Just because a perfume is expensive and has a fancy bottle does not make it right for whomever you’re giving it to. Fragrances, as I’ve found, are very fickle in terms of body chemistry and weather. Giving my mother a bottle of Shalimar was like giving her a blender—appreciated, but not practical to everyday life. Instead, I’ve decided to spend time sampling the many different kinds of fragrances that she might enjoy. I’ve ordered this sampler of “spring” perfumes from a company called The Perfumed Court. It offers the opportunity to spend time with Mom (which is probably all she wants, anyway) and let her smell a variety of different scents that are right for the time of year. If she likes one in particular, you can purchase her a larger decant. A win-win situation. 

Hand-stamped jewelry
Like with fragrances above, I am at a complete loss when it comes to picking out jewelry for my mom. She likes so many different styles and no one style specifically. I recently found out about a website called The Vintage Pearl, which offers unique hand-stamped jewelry that you can personalize. They have everything from monogrammed necklaces with mother of pearl inlays to much more interesting pieces like teardrop earrings and personalized spoons from her baby. (Read: You. You are her baby.) You can also check out Etsy.com for more hand-stamped jewelry offerings. My favorite that I’ve seen is a set of circles with the names of all of her children.

Meal assembly gift certificate
Whenever I call my mother (every day, by the way), it seems she’s always in the kitchen either making a lunch or getting an early start on dinner. She doesn’t seem to mind, but she also doesn’t complain about having to watch her grandchildren nearly every day of the week, either. I’ve noticed these so called “meal assembly” franchises popping up everywhere lately, and I’ve considered looking into the concept for my mother, if even just once a month. These are places like Dream Dinners or Ideal Meals that offer to help with the prep work for a meal. You then just take your purchase home and heat it up, with very little effort on your part, and it’s still a “healthy” and substantive meal. I haven’t tried a dinner from one of these locations, but caliente pork chops with garlic mashed potatoes and chateau chicken with almond butter sauce sound pretty darn good, if you ask me. And the good thing about these dinners is that they’re not completely prepared, so some work is still involved (although minimal).

Write a letter
This is kind of a cheap way to get your mother to cry, but it really works. Take the time to write a handwritten letter to your mom about some of the memories you have from your childhood. These are the moments that capture your relationship from the good to the bad. Express how much you love her by recounting those times when you’ve desperately needed your mother’s support and she was there to give it. Describe those moments where you’ve both struggled and persevered together. For example, we moved around a lot when I was a kid, and sometimes I didn’t know if things were going to be OK. My mom was always there to make sure we were comfortable, even if the situation suggested otherwise. Make her laugh in the letter by recounting memories of when you both found something mutually funny. But most importantly, tell her that you love her. Life is far too short to hold back on gestures of love. Oh, she’ll cry. Trust me. 

Liquor
I guess I’m kind of kidding with the suggestion of buying your mother alcohol (especially if she isn’t a drinker), but hear this one out. My mother is NOT a drinker. She’s never been intoxicated unless you count high school, which nobody should, ever, for any reason. She doesn’t enjoy social drinking or even the occasional glass of wine with dinner. Here’s the thing, though: My mother will drink mimosas at Christmas and Easter and actually get a little loopy. She “never drinks” unless it’s a holiday having something to do with Jesus. Isn’t that weird? So, my idea is to purchase her a “mimosa kit,” which will include several champagne flutes, orange juice, a really nice champagne and an afternoon off from whatever she’s doing. We’ll sit outside on a nice spring afternoon and drink the heck out of our homemade mimosas, Jesus or not. I’ll leave you with my favorite Mother’s Day song, called “White Winos” by Loudon Wainwright III. Happy Mother’s Day.

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